by David Haase
Then you will call, and the LORD will answer. You will cry for help, and he will say, ‘Here I am.’ If you take away from among you the yoke, finger pointing, and speaking wickedly; and if you pour out your soul to the hungry, and satisfy the afflicted soul, then your light will rise in darkness, and your obscurity will be as the noonday; and the LORD will guide you continually, satisfy your soul in dry places, and make your bones strong. You will be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water whose waters don’t fail.
I never realized how lonely ministry could be until I became a pastor.
Though some family members who were Christians were delighted with our ministry, others weren’t.
One family member told my wife and I that we would not be invited to their family functions anymore. Their were afraid that I was going to try to convert them. Others were not bold enough to tell me how they felt. They simply stopped inviting us over.
Becoming part of a church gave us the opportunity to meet new people.
The church was vibrant in the community and reached out to them with mission efforts. They helped the community with donations to the food pantry, held an annual coat drive, free dinners, and clothing pantry. They also worked with the local Boys and Girls Club and Alcoholics Anonymous.
We quickly became active in the church. They embraced my wife and included her in the activities.
Somehow, the love lost because of the family who denied us was replaced with the love of our church family. Ministry can be lonely, but God promises His blessing.
Still, the love of our church family and the needs of our community embody the saying, “God is good, all the time. And all the time, God is good!”
How does loneliness affect my ministry? How does it affect my interactions with others?
Loving Lord, Please give me the strength to love my friends and family who have denied me because of Jesus. Thank You for my church family that loves and embraces me. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.