True Friends

by Margaret Michel

2 Thessalonians 1:3

We are bound to always give thanks to God for you, brothers, even as it is appropriate, because your faith grows exceedingly, and the love of each and every one of you toward one another abounds.

The value of a true friend is immeasurable.

Life seems brighter and loads seem lighter when walking in step with a good friend. Without a friend’s unbiased perspective, my experiences are stifled, like a musty room that needs fresh air. A friend is a priceless aid to me becoming a better version of myself. Better choices and better outcomes are all due to the faithfulness of the friends with whom I surround myself.

I especially thank God for friends who are not only good towards me but who are also good to one another as well.

I’ve found that, when someone I assumed was a good friend constantly speaks badly of others, more often than not, that individual is doing the same to me as well — presenting a friendly front while tearing me down behind my back.

2 Thessalonians 1:3 tells us that it is “appropriate” to be thankful when both growing faith and love are manifested towards one another.

I am comfortable in the midst of friends who are also genuine friends of each other. Like-mindedness can cause our relationships to become stronger. True friendship does not tolerate speaking evil of others. I treasure the time with my godly friends, secure in the knowledge that growing faith and love are prized.


Reflection

Am I the type of friend to others that I would want them to be to me? How can I grow my circle of godly friends?


Prayer

Holy Lord, Please bless my friends. Strengthen their faith and their love for You. Likewise, help me to be a faithful, loving friend — both to others and to You. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.