The Comfort of Godly Friends

by David Haase

2 Corinthians 1:5, 7

For as the sufferings of Christ abound to us, even so our comfort also abounds through Christ. Our hope for you is steadfast, knowing that, since you are partakers of the sufferings, so also are you of the comfort.

After nine years of marriage, I found myself divorced from an unfaithful spouse and facing homelessness.

One wintry day, an old friend pulled into my driveway to ask me to go ice fishing. He noticed that I had lost a lot of weight and was shaking with tremors.

He took me to the emergency room. Later, he took me to his home and listened while I explained what was happening in my life. I moved in with him and his wife for a short time. His family comforted me. I slowly became myself again, making my children as my priority in life.

My dear friend and his wife invited me to their church. I went with them every week I didn’t have to work. It didn’t take me long to realize that the real comfort I received was from God. He used my Christian friends to reach out to me in a loving, impartial way.

I have often wondered if the outcome would have been different if they had not had a church’s influence in their lives. They took the time to comfort me in a Christ-like way. I will be forever grateful for the comfort of godly friends.


Reflection

Who comforts me? Who have I comforted in my life?


Prayer

Gracious, loving God, Thank You for putting Your comforters in my life. I am so grateful for people who nurtured me and taught me how to nurture others. May I be a bearer of Your comfort to all I meet. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.